Questions were not meant to be a thing to hound us for information but to teach us how to think in regards to what we have done or what we are planning to do.
If you have ever been cross examined by an attorney an attorney or a police officer or even a parent in such a way that would make you feel that you were being backed into a corner then you might begin to not like such people and become defensive towards them.
But when somebody is trying to help you by asking the right kinds of questions at the right time then it becomes beneficial to you because these are such questions more for your benefit to help you think and not to collect personal information about you. For these reasons it can seem most difficult to find somebody whom you can confide in. I am a firm believer that a person should ask permission before they begin to ask certain kinds of questions. Especially if it is not of any real benefit or value to anyone to ask them in the first place, except for getting into somebody elses business. Both on a personal level and a professional level such superficial types questions are not really designed to get at the heart of anything but to cause a distraction to the one being asked and to add to the arsenal of the asker.
